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Secret Ingredients to Successful Parenting

February 6, 2012 6:56 pm

Kate Raidt, the author of The Million-Dollar Parent, recently wrote about an episode she had while baking. While whipping up a batch of her famous oatmeal chocolate chip cookies—something she is so familiar with she doesn’t even need to look at the recipe anymore--Raidt completely forgot to put in the eggs, resulting in a disastrous, crumbly cookie.

“In many ways, successful parenting correlates to successful cooking,” writes Raidt. “If you leave out even one simple ingredient, you’ve got a mess on your hands.”

Below are Raidt’s top 5 secret ingredients to successful parenting.
1. Time and Attention – The average child today spends 5 minutes with dad but 20 hours watching television each week. There is no regulation on how long an infant or toddler can be left at a daycare center each day. 71 percent of American households have double income parents. One of the biggest crisis’ we face in America these days are the millions of children growing up without parents and parenting giving them true one-on-one, direct interaction each day. Investing time and attention into your children is the greatest investment you will make in your entire life – and the life of your children.
2. Healthy Eating Habits – Yes, we are a junk food nation, and our children are paying the big, big price. Kids are inundated with processed foods, sodas, juices, fast food and mass-produced cafeteria food—daily! It is critical that parents lead by example and implement healthy options at home and avoid sugary and processed foods.
3. Adequate Sleep – Studies are showing that children who receive even 15 minutes less sleep than their fellow classmates not only have lower IQs but also fall into the B and C category of grades at school. Inadequate sleep also has a tremendous impact on obesity, depression and overall brain development. So enforce strict bedtimes and make sure your children receive at least 10 hours of sleep each night.
4. Positive Discipline – 80 percent of parents are either too permissive or too authoritative. Just like in cooking, if you under-cook a batch of cookies they are gooey and nasty. If you over-cook a batch of cookies, they are burnt and covered in carcinogens. The secret is to bake the cookies on the right temperature for the right amount of time. Same rule goes for parenting: Discipline when necessary by taking away privileges or enforcing time outs—but too much criticism and physical discipline creates fearful children with low self-esteem. Find that perfect balance so your kids come out nice and yummy!
5. Strong Spiritual Foundation – Parenting is the most important job on Earth…and sometimes one of the hardest. Parents who look to a “Higher Power” for guidance, leadership and peace tend to make smarter choices when raising children. And children who are raised in spiritual homes tend to have lower incidents with drinking, drugs, pregnancy and suicide.

Source: www.swparents.com

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Word of the Day

February 6, 2012 6:56 pm

VA loan. Veterans Administration-backed mortgage. The VA, a federal agency, operates a loan guarantee program for honorably discharged veterans and widows of veterans who died of a service-related injury. Mortgages call for low or no down payment. Sometimes referred to as GI loan.

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Question of the Day

February 6, 2012 6:56 pm

Q: Should I always get a permit before making home improvements?

A: To save both time and money, some people avoid getting building permits. But most cities require them. Besides ensuring safety during construction – housing inspectors sometimes stop by to check on the progress of projects at key points – they are also a source of revenue.

Cities charge a fee when a building permit is issued. Also, work done with a building permit can result in an increase in the homeowners’ property taxes because, in general, a home improvement increases the assessed value of the property.

Permits are usually required when any structural work is planned or the basic living space of a home is altered. They generally cover new construction, repairs, alterations, demolition, and additions to a structure. Some jurisdictions require the permit to be posted in a visible spot on the premises while the work is being done.

Besides structural changes, permits also may be needed to cover the installation of foundations for tanks and equipment, as well as the construction or demolition of ducts, sprinkler systems, or standpipe systems.

By law, all buildings must have a building permit and a certificate of occupancy before they can be used.

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Super Bowl Get Super Messy? 10 Tips to Tackle Post-Party Cleanup

February 3, 2012 6:50 pm

They are excited, they are rowdy and they are hungry. They're coming over to watch the big game, and they're leaving behind stains and crumbs for you to clear away. Keeps your home in working order before and after a game-day party using these simple and effective tips from The Maids.

• Make space for coats in a closet or in a bedroom. Put out an extra rug or two in the entryway in case of wet shoes.
• If using paper products, put plenty of recycling and trash containers around the house with extra trash bags in the bottom. When you pull out a full trash bag, another bag is then within an arm's reach.
• If you have a dishwasher, make sure it is cleaned out before guests arrive so you can stash dirty dishes inside to stay ahead of the game.
• Provide insulated can coolers or place sports themed stickers on cups so guests can identify their drinks.
• Cover your food table with wax paper or butcher paper for easy cleanup.
• Have a "cleaning bucket" ready for cleaning emergencies. Make sure to include carpet cleaner and an absorbent rag. A spot from a spilled drink is easy to clean if you are prepared in advance.
• If the party involves all ages, have a room with toys and games where the children can play.
• Provide televisions in other rooms so no one misses the action. Don't forget to put a radio in the bathroom!
• Keep a clearly marked recycling bin within guests' reach for bottles and cans.
• Place moist towelettes near appetizers since messy fingers have a tendency to roam at will.

Source: http://www.maids.com

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Question of the Day

February 3, 2012 6:50 pm

Q: How can owning a home pay off at tax time?

A: A home provides many tax benefits, literally from the time you buy to the time you sell. The mortgage interest paid on a home loan up to $1 million for a primary residence or second home is tax deductible every year, as is the local property tax. Other mortgage costs – including late-payment charges and early-payment penalties – are also deductible.

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Word of the Day

February 3, 2012 6:50 pm

Value. Market value or present worth. To have value, a property must have utility, scarcity, effective demand, and transferability.

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5 Ways to Be the Perfect Valentine

February 3, 2012 6:50 pm

St. Valentines Day—named, some say, for the fourth century Roman bishop who secretly married young soldiers and their brides in spite of a royal ban against it—is celebrated here each February 14 with mountains of chocolates, bowers of flowers, and hundreds of thousands of Valentine’s greeting cards ranging from the silly to the sublime.

But these sweet traditions are hardly an American exclusive. Millions of lovers around the world join us each year in professing their affection—many in ways most of us have never thought about.

So if you want to do something a little different this year to make your Valentine greeting stand out, peruse this list of five time-honored traditions favored by lovers around the world:

• Love spoons – In Wales, where the day honors St. Dwynen, the Welsh counterpart of St. Valentine, there is a centuries-old tradition of presenting hand-carved wooden love spoons to one’s beloved. The elaborate spoons, featuring Celtic knots and flower stems entwined to signify eternal love, are still available today from wood-carving stores in Wales. You can see them online at sites like http://www.welsh-lovespoons.co.uk/
• Turning the tables – In Japan, the Valentine custom is for women to give chocolates to all their male friends and co-workers—with an additional small gift, such as a tie or shirt, presented to their significant other. Then on March 14, in a tradition known as White Day, the men return the favor, giving their ladies white sweets like marshmallow—along with jewelry and other expensive gifts.
• Rhyming poems – In Denmark, there is the tradition of the gaekkebrev – a funny, rhyming poem written by a man to his love. He doesn’t sign the poem with his name, but with dots representing the letters in his name. If the woman can guess who sent the poem, she receives an assortment of cookies and chocolate for Easter.
• Serenades – In Mexico, along with red roses and Valentine chocolates, would-be suitors profess their love by bringing a mariachi band, or a trio of singers to serenade their beloved while standing beneath her window. Then, assuming the woman agrees, they go out for a romantic dinner.
• Love and marriage – In Israel, February 14 carries its share of flowers and candy. But a second “lover’s day,” celebrated on the holiday of Tu B’Av in August, is a commonplace time for proposing marriage to one’s beloved.

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Question of the Day

February 3, 2012 6:50 pm

Q: What questions should be asked of an architect?

A: Ask questions that will give you a sense of the architect’s style, approach to design, and methods of work. For example: What is your design philosophy? What important issues or challenges do you see in my project? How will you approach my project? What will you show me along the way (models, drawings, or sketches) to explain the project? How do you establish fees? What would be the expected fee for my project? What is your experience/track record with cost estimating? If the scope of the project changes later, will there be additional fees? How will these be justified? The Washington Chapter of the AIA offers an excellent consumer brochure that provides additional questions and useful information.

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Consumers Want Control over Appliances and Energy

February 3, 2012 6:50 pm

In our previous segment, I took a look at some of the connected or smart appliances hitting the market this year. But will having all that remote command of appliances take a toll on our environment, or spur greater energy consumption—along with higher costs?

Prior to the 2012 International Consumer Electronics Show in Las Vegas, Whirlpool—which is introducing a kitchen full of connected appliances—took a look at a survey the company conducted along with Harris Interactive.

According to company officials, while consumers want to be green, they still want to retain control. However, they will change their energy consumption choices if they are given real-time information about how much energy is being used. More importantly, consumers don't want to just monitor and manage energy—they want to control appliances and handle other home management functions including security systems, water and temperature management.

A recent survey conducted by Harris Interactive on behalf of Whirlpool Corporation found that:

• Seventy-eight percent are interested in monitoring their household's energy use.
• Most want to use their smartphone to make life easier. In fact, 90 percent of 18-34 year olds who have a smartphone would be happy to have their smartphone tell their appliances anything; 17 percent want to know when it's time to switch the laundry and 17 percent want to know when items are ready (food, etc.).
• When asked about smartphones communicating with appliances, respondents were split on what would be most useful. Their top concerns?
o Alert when the washer is done;
o Notify me when items are ready (i.e. cooked/clean);
o Preheat my oven or turn it off;
o Start appliances for self-clean;
o Tell me what I need to stock in the fridge;
o Start or refresh the laundry;
o Start the dishwasher.

Company officials noted that bringing all of this functionality together for the end user is the current focus for manufacturers, utilities and software companies. Ultimately, Whirlpool is designing to the concept that SmartGrid won't consist of just one app but multiple ways of accessing it through a bundle of applications.

This will also affect product design. For example, some controls on appliances may be eliminated. Instead, they will be controlled via mobile phone.

Additionally, appliances will be able to provide even more feedback to consumers whether it is the concept of preventative maintenance or use and care guides. For example, a clothes dryer needs to have the lint cleaned out of the venting pipe periodically and the appliance could automatically notify consumers when this should be done.

With many washers now offering bulk detergent dispensing, the washer could connect and alert the owner that the reservoir needs to be refilled.

We'll be looking into other connected / smart home and appliance innovations coming to the consumer market in future segments, so stay tuned!

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Emergency Disaster Restoration Tips for Fire and Water Damage

February 3, 2012 6:50 pm

Natural disasters can bring on sudden unexpected damage to our homes. As such, the need for planning and the necessity of a fast disaster restoration response are important to any business.
Damage from floods and fires can often be irreparable if it is not dealt with immediately. Emergency services, including preventative measures and disaster restoration, can help significantly reduce the severity of the losses that your business experiences, in addition to ensuring the safety of your employees. Here are a few emergency tips to keep in mind should any fire or water related damage occur in your office:

Water Damage Tips
Did you know that damage from water and bacteria growth (mold) can begin within hours? It is important to act quickly by calling a water damage cleanup professional shortly after the damage occurs. In the meantime, move as much furniture as possible to a dry location to prevent further damage. You should also remove all loose floor coverings and stop all long drapery from touching the floor by lifting it up.
To keep the environment safe, create as much air movement as possible until a disaster restoration professional can place drying equipment in your office. If you spot any visible mold, however, do not use fans yourself, as they may spread contaminants. Also remember to turn off the electricity in a room which contains standing water before entering it, and be sure to check all computers, printers and other electrical devices before using them.

Smoke/Fire Damage Tips
In as few as 48 hours, corrosive smoke residue can cause irreversible surface damage. So, be sure to quickly contact a fire damage restoration professional for help. Until they arrive, do not touch anything with your bare hands, as their natural oils can create soot. You should also wait for a professional before cleaning walls that have been contaminated with smoke.

Another important issue is the spread of smoke-contaminated air, which should be dealt with immediately. Use filters to cover all supply and return registers; this will help to minimize the transfer of smoke through the ducts in your office. As with any type of disaster damage, we advise you not to use your electrical devices until they have been checked by a disaster restoration expert.

When water or fire and smoke damage affect your business, your immediate response could mean the difference between a small cleanup and a more time-consuming disaster restoration project. It is important to take these tips into consideration, so that you can minimize the damage done to your office should a fire or flood ever occur.

Source: http://local.servicemasterclean.com

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